HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY 2009

With Valentine's day coming, I think this post is something you would enjoy reading!

WHAT MAKES A GENTLEMAN?

1. When you see a lady struggling with heavy bags, offer to carry them for her. Even if she tells you it is okay, just take the bags from her hand gently, smile and say 'Please don't refuse it, now just let me do it!'
*Don't carry those bags at the shoulder-a bit sissy. Just carry it with your hand

2. When you are entering a room, a place or a bus, let the lady walk through the door first by stepping behind the lady and if she doesn't get it, tell her 'You may go first'.

3. When you are going to sit down, push the chair out for the girl and help her to put her bag(s) on another chair.

4. A gentleman doesn't curse and swear.

5. If you are at the same table and she likes eating prawns, shell 1 prawn for the girl.
*Just 1, not too many cos you still must remain cool

6. If you are having dinner with a girl, get her favorite food for her and put them on her plate with a smile.

7. Send a girl home regardless of the time- be it in the afternoon or late at night, and ask the girl to message you once she has reached home.

8. A gentleman doesn't get drunk or try and get a girl drunk. He stays sober so that he can protect the girl by not letting her come to any harm and send the girl home.

9. A gentleman observes that a girl is cold and lends his jacket to a girl before she even asks.

10. A gentleman is also confident of himself-the way he talks, walks and behave.
*confident is not over-confident

WHAT MAKES AN OUTSTANDING LADY?

1. An outstanding lady doesn't throw her tantrums just so that someone will come and comfort her.

2. An outstanding lady controls her emotions even when she interacts with difficult people because she can put herself in the shoes of others and be understanding.

3. Even when an outstanding lady is not feeling good, she will not vent her frustrations on others just because she had a bad day. She is not this selfish. She cares about the needs of others more than she cares about herself.

4. An outstanding lady doesn't curse or swear when she is upset. She will reflect through things and find a solution.

5. An outstanding lady is not quarrelsome. She reasons in sincerity and humility but never criticizes or insult others.

6. An outstanding lady opens her arms to the poor and extends her hands to the needy.

7. An outstanding lady speaks gently and is always patient to listen to others.

8. An outstanding lady doesn't get jealous easily and always believes in the goodness of others.

9. An outstanding lady has her own life and is not lonely when she is alone. She doesn't always need to have someone to be with her so that she will be happy.

10. An outstanding lady will observe that there is something bothering her friend and be just there to comfort and support him and won't ask too many questions until he starts saying them.

11. An outstanding lady doesn't find her confidence in makeup and pretty clothes, bags and shoes. She will still be as confident without makeup, pretty clothes, bags and shoes.

12. An outstanding lady can go home on her own and not have to be sent because she understands it is very tiring for the person to make an extra trip.

13. An outstanding lady does not make demands on others, especially unreasonable ones.

14. An outstanding lady is understanding.

15. An outstanding lady is game for sports and adventure and is not afraid of trying.